A Complete Timeline of Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn’s Relationship


Taylor Swift has never spoken about Joe Alwyn publicly, but they’re apparently a couple — and they’ve been together for nearly three years.

Swift has been uncharacteristically quiet about her relationship with Alwyn. The paparazzi photo ops of her Hiddleswift days and the couply Instagram pics she’d post with Calvin Harris are nowhere to be found. In fact, Swift largely uses her social media for promoting her work and sharing photos of her other loves—cats Olivia, Meredith, and Benjamin.

Still, we’ve managed to eke out a few details of Swift and Alwyn’s relationship. Here’s a timeline of their coupledom.

May 2, 2016: They meet at the Met Gala (probably).

Nobody knows for sure when Taylor and Joe first met. But sleuths have determined that the song “Dress” on her 2017 album Reputation might refer to their first meeting.

The lyrics in question: “Flashback to when you met me, your buzzed cut and my hair bleached.” Swift’s hair was, indeed, bleached at the Met Gala, and Alwyn’s hair was buzzed.

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Swift was still dating Calvin Harris. This Met Gala is also the night she met Tom Hiddleston and danced goofily with him in a video that went viral, and later sparked the rebound heard ‘round the world. It was an eventful night for Tay.

Oct. 12, 2016: Swift and Alwyn attend the same Kings of Leon concert.

A month after breaking up with Hiddleston, Swift went to a Kings of Leon show with her friends. Online sleuths have since determined that Alwyn was at the show, too.

Nov. 12, 2016: Swift attends Alwyn’s movie screening.

Swift and a gaggle of squad members went to the premiere of Alwyn’s film, Billy Lynn’s Long Halftime Walk. If she and Alwyn were dating at this point, it was so under the radar that press coverage of the premiere didn’t even mention his name. It’s not clear if he was in attendance.

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Alwyn at the photo call for Billy Lynn’s Long Halftime Walk.

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May 16, 2017: Reports emerge that they’re dating.

A source close to the pair told The Sun that Swift and Alwyn’s romance had been together for a few months, and that their friends and families were in on it:

“This isn’t a new couple alert or a secret relationship – the only people this has been a secret to is the media because all of us, Taylor and Joe’s closest friends and their families, were aware they have been together for several months and have known each other for a longtime.

“After her 1989 tour and all the attention Taylor received, she learned she had to be more protective of her personal life and she and Joe decided early on to keep their private life private.”

June 5, 2017: They’re caught by the paparazzi in Nashville.

The paparazzi finally caught the couple in action: sitting on a balcony in Nashville, where Alwyn was allegedly meeting Swift’s parents for the first time.

July 25, 2017: They’re caught again, this time in New York.

Hoodies pulled tight over their faces, the couple were caught leaving Swift’s apartment.

Swift and Alwyn seemed desperate to go incognito in these pics.

Oct. 20, 2017: Swift tells fans her new single “Gorgeous” is about Alwyn.

Swift hosted a “secret” listening session for her new album, Reputation. She allegedly told fans the single “Gorgeous” is about Alwyn.

“Basically Taylor made us all promise that if anyone made any accusations of who this song is about, we tell them it is 100 percent about her angel boyfriend of one year,” a fan wrote on Tumblr. “This isn’t a secret. She wanted us to tell people.”

Oct. 27, 2017: Ed Sheeran spills the beans on Alwyn.

On the heels of Swift’s revelation that “Gorgeous” is about Alwyn, her bestie Ed Sheeran was asked about Alwyn on a British radio show.

“He’s really nice”, he said. “Really, really friendly, really good dude.”

Dec. 11, 2017: The couple is spotted *gasp* snuggling during an Ed Sheeran performance.

Momentarily letting their guard down, Swift and Alwyn engaged in some honest-to-god PDA while Ed Sheeran performed at iHeartRadio’s Jingle Bell Ball in New York City.


May 8, 2018: They post coordinating cactus photos to Instagram.

Both Alwyn and Swift posted photos of themselves, solo, standing next to the same cactus.

Alwyn later said they didn’t even realize the photos coordinated.

“I didn’t even think of that until I was in New York and someone else mentioned it,” he said, according to ET. “It wasn’t purposeful at all!”

This is the closest we’ve come to an “Instagram-official” moment for the couple.

Sept. 19, 2018: Alwyn talks about Swift for the first time — but only to say he doesn’t want to talk about her.

“I’m aware people want to know about that side of things,” he said to British Vogue. “I think we have been successfully very private and that has now sunk in for people…but I really prefer to talk about work.”

Oct. 18, 2018: Alwyn speaks very, very briefly about Swift’s newfound political activism.

In early October, Swift finally waded into the political world to endorse two Tennessee congressional candidates, after a career-long silence.

A few days later, an interviewer asked Alwyn how he felt about Swift’s post.

“I think it’s great, and I think it’s important,” he said, before uncomfortably shuffling away.

Nov. 23, 2018: Swift acknowledges Alwyn’s existence on social media.

After two years of knowing him, Swift finally posted something about Alwyn — or at least, his work — on Instagram.

It was a clipped trailer for his new movie, The Favourite, with a caption calling the film “phenomenal” and imploring her followers to go see it. She tagged the movie’s account, plus Alwyn’s and Nicholas Hoult’s.

Nov. 25, 2018: Alwyn reiterates that he’d like to keep his private life private.

In an interview with GQ, he skirts around the topic of Taylor, saying, “Someone’s private life is, by definition, private. No one is obliged to share their personal life.”

He also declined to name a favorite Swift song. “I’m just not even going to go into that side of the world,” he said.

Dec. 7, 2018: Alwyn opens up a teeny bit about their relationship.

Just to mix things up, Alwyn provided a tiny kernel of information about his relationship with Swift, before saying he didn’t want to talk about it.

Esquire asked him if he sought out any guidance from friends when he started dating Swift.

“I didn’t seek out advice on that,” he said. “Because I know what I feel about it. I think there’s a very clear line as to what somebody should share, or feel like they have to share, and what they don’t want to and shouldn’t have to.”

Dec. 11, 2018: Swift attends Alwyn’s movie premiere in London.

Swift popped up at the Cineworld Leicester premiere of Mary Queen of Scots as well as an after-party.

Other than that, the couple has stayed mum — but with awards season coming up and Alwyn appearing in two Oscar-bait films (The Favourite and Mary Queen of Scots), they might just make their red carpet debut any minute.

Jan. 6, 2019: Swift and Alwyn attend the Golden Globes (separately).

Alwyn attended the awards show for his nominated film The Favourite and Swift presented Best Original Score and Best Original Song during the Golden Globes. Although they didn’t walk the red carpet together, an Us Weekly source claimed the two got quite flirty while she was onstage.

“While Taylor presented, Joe watched the teleprompter near him and smiled and (his Favourite costar) Nicholas Hoult patted him on the back,” the source said. “After Gaga walked on stage, Joe shifted his gaze to the stage near Taylor.” The insider added, “She was smiling at him while she walked off the stage. She looked over her shoulder and gave a sassy cute little smile at his table’s direction.”

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Feb. 10, 2019: Swift and Alwyn step out at a BAFTAS after party.

Swift skipped the Grammy Awards in favor of attending a BAFTAs after party with her beau. Clad in a pale blue Stella McCartney gown, Swift gave off major Cinderella vibes alongside Alwyn. The two were even photographed walking together hand-in-hand. (A rare occurrence for this secretive duo!)

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March 2019

As Swift continued filming the big screen version of Cats in London, reports swirled that getting engaged to Alwyn was not far off. “Taylor’s friends are all talking about a proposal and how she really wants to marry Joe,” an Us Weekly source shared. “He’s her dream guy.”

A People source echoed those sentiments, saying, “Taylor really got lucky to meet Joe, and she is the first one to say it. Joe really is one of a kind.”

May 2019

Swift and Alwyn ate breakfast at Café de Flore and then took a stroll through the city of Paris in a rare public outing.

Later in the month, the couple made it a double date with similarly private pair Robert Pattinson and Suki Waterhouse. Per an Us Weekly onlooker, the four low-key celebs dined at San Vicente Bungalows in Hollywood, spending the night laughing and talking.

July 2019

In the lead-up to the release of Swift’s seventh studio album, don’t expect too many sad love songs on the track list. It appears that Alwyn and Swift are stronger than ever, liking each other’s dual career-focused Instagrams on July 23.

August 2019

Ahead of the August 23 release of her album Lover, Swift already revealed to fans that new music would address her current relationship…in so many words. During a YouTube Live she explained, “It’s a really romantic album, but it really celebrates love in all its complexity. Not just flowers and sunshine but the patchwork emotions that go into any love you feel.”

Once the album dropped, fans began dissecting every song for hidden clues about the couple. Some were even convinced the songs “Lover” and “Paper Rings” were Swift’s big marriage reveal.

Swift continued to avoid talking about Alwyn in interviews. While speaking to The Guardian about why she wouldn’t speak on her relationship, she said, “I’ve learned that if I do, people think it’s up for discussion, and our relationship isn’t up for discussion,” she said with a laugh. “If you and I were having a glass of wine right now, we’d be talking about it—but it’s just that it goes out into the world. That’s where the boundary is, and that’s where my life has become manageable. I really want to keep it feeling manageable.”

Shortly after a People source gave an update on the relationship saying, “Joe’s personality is great for Taylor. He is very calm and always very supportive. He’s sympathetic and understanding and supports her speaking out about things that she doesn’t agree with.”

Even her inner circle likes Joe, the source added: “There’s something refreshing and different about their relationship. Joe makes Taylor very happy, and it’s hard to picture her not spending the rest of her life with him. Her family loves him. He seems older than he is and is a fantastic guy.”

As for future comment from either party regarding the romance? The source says it’s unlikely: “Joe loves acting but doesn’t want to be a celebrity,” the source said. “They both agree that for their relationship to keep working, they want to keep things more quiet. She’s the happiest she’s ever been.”

September 2019

The two were photographed boarding Swift’s private plane after a low-key trip to her beach house in Watch Hill, Rhode Island.

October 5, 2019

In a rare sighting for the couple, Alwyn and Swift were seen holding hands after the singer’s Saturday Night Live performances. They headed to New York’s Zuma in New York for the show’s after party.

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November 2019

Swift celebrated Thanksgiving in London with Alwyn, according to E!, but not before hosting a splashy American Friendsgiving with friends including Gigi Hadid, Antoni Porowski, and Martha Hunt.



Early December 2019

Us Weekly and E! both ran reports early in the month stating things between the couple are still going well. “Taylor has had a tough year and Joe has been a rock for her,” a source told Us. “They are still going very strong.”

Meanwhile, E! reported that,”Taylor has been spending a lot of down time in London,” per a source. “She doesn’t go out much other than to take a walk with Joe or go to the local pub. They spend a lot of time with Joe’s family and friends. All weekend they had people come over or they went to family members’ homes.”

Further proving the couple is doing just fine, Swift shared a photo of her Vogue UK cover on Instagram, which Alwyn liked right away.

December 16, 2019

Alwyn was on hand to subtly support Swift at the NYC premiere of her new movie, Cats.

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